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Welcome back to 69 South Podcast.
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We hope you had a good time since the last time.
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This is going to be part two of Secrets in the Snow, the Karen Reed story.
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This is our sixth episode and we're glad to have you back.
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With me is my co-host, julie.
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She's the main investigator on this case because she's been digging into it for three weeks now.
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This episode we are going to dig into some really, really red tape of the case and you guys are going to see exactly why we're investigating this.
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Also, all of our information is not from just watching other podcasts.
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It's from us doing our due diligence and reading court transcripts, memorandums, everything from the prosecution and defense sides that is out, and we've came to all of our own conclusions and I think we've uncovered some stuff that we haven't heard anybody else talk about.
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So I'm excited to get into this and right now we are going to read John O'Keefe's text messages with Miss Karen Reed on the day prior to when he went missing and up until that morning, so you can see the dynamics of the relationship.
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And, like Julie said, every bit of this information has come from us investigating the court case, or sworn testimonies or any security footage or just anything.
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It's real.
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We haven't, we're not going to broadcast any bullshit and our opinions are not going to be based on bullshit.
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Also, we do all our own everything.
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We're our own writers, producers, so this is fun for us, but we're new to it and we're learning and it's going to be great.
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So, like Julie said, we're going to take you back to the morning of the day that this tragedy happened.
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So we're going to go through Karen Reed and John O'Keefe's text messages to and from each other and that'll give you a kind of a feeling on how they were feeling and what they were going through.
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It's going to start off that day.
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So, without any further delay, I'm going to be reading the text messages from John O'Keefe and Julie's going to be reading the text messages to John O'Keefe from Karen Reed messages to John O'Keefe from Karen Reed.
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Now, these messages start on January 28th of 2022, around 9 30 in the morning, so let's get into it.
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I'm going to be reading Karen and Chop's going to be reading John, you have really hurt me this time.
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You have really hurt me.
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This time Again.
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This is from John DeCaron.
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I'm sorry.
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This has been an issue with me for eight years.
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It physically hurts me to see everyone else in their life do things for them and I'm always forced, always the bad guy.
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I am not the same as everyone else.
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Most of the time, I try to do what is healthy and smart for them.
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More importantly, I try to support you and what you need.
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You just lashed out at me and said terrible things.
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I don't know how you've gotten to this point with me when I'm just trying my hardest.
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You made your point and continue to beat me down.
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I have a lot going on too Physically.
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I am falling apart and trying to get answers and help.
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I am just your girlfriend.
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I am not a perfect parent.
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I am trying very hard and sometimes treat them nothing like I used to.
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I know I'm sorry for lashing out.
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I'm just hurting and struggling every day with them.
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I always feel like I'm failing at this parent thing.
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I wasn't built for this.
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Kaylee isn't perfect, but everything wonderful about her is because of you.
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And the next one from him was redacted, so we'll go back to you.
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It's time.
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Sorry, it's true, I know she's her mother's daughter, but she wouldn't be so bright and successful if she lived with anyone else.
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Wow, kristen just sent you two back-to-back messages to not lose your faith in the kids or in yourself.
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Another message from John to Karen that was redacted, so we'll go back to you.
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No life can pick you up sometimes.
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So we'll go back to you.
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No life can pick you up sometimes.
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Please be happy with them and put away your frustrations for the rest of the day and be so proud of yourself.
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Jj.
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That bothers me more than anything.
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Should have spent Peg's or Sarah's W-2s.
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We are all equal guardians.
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Maybe you can call someone.
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Like who?
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What time are you coming here?
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Another redacted one, so back to you.
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I don't know what time.
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Feel kind of out of it Just trying to clear my head.
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Another one from John to Karen.
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All it says is okay, sure, but it really stung.
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Especially when I've been trying pretty hard lately, I feel like a loser turning around and just coming back over there after everything you said, not sure what else you want me to do.
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I am sorry, I was out of line.
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If you prefer to stay home, I totally get it.
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Things in my own life have been difficult too, you know.
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I know, tell me if you are interested in someone else.
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Can't think of any other reason you've been like this.
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Nope, these haven't been great between us for a while.
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Ever consider that Kids are here not in the mood to talk.
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So you're not into it anymore.
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That's fine, but I don't want to keep trying and keep you treating me like this.
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I'm trying to hug and kiss you this morning and you whack me in the face with a pillow Last night.
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You're basically like yeah, what about when we talk about the future?
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So why don't you just admit you're not into it so much anymore?
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That's not how it went down, but okay.
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Can you please admit your head is out of the game with us.
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Sick of always arguing and fighting.
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It's been weekly for several months now, so, yeah, I'm not so quick to jump back in to being lovey-dovey as you are apparently.
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Oh my God, stop calling.
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Then why would you start with me this morning?
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You're setting me up to fail.
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You start a number of fights from your end.
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I've explained it a few times already, not doing it again.
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So you're not into this anymore, not into fighting all the time, correct?
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If you tell me you're interested in someone else, you will never hear from me again.
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You can have all the space in the world.
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The next message from John to Karen was redacted, so back to you.
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Then stop starting with me.
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I am not answering, stop calling.
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Can you please answer after how you treated me earlier?
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Kaylee is right here.
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Answer.
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After how you treated me earlier, Kaylee is right here.
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You start a rager with me out of nowhere and then tell me you're sick of fighting with me, I'm going to grab a drink in a bit.
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Can you please answer?
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No, karen, not sure why you need to announce that you're grabbing a drink, but have fun Sing.
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If you want to meet me later, can you please call me?
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Have to take them to the doctor.
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He has practice.
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Yeah, five minutes.
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My father just walked in.
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Okay, can you please call me for two minutes?
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Not right now.
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I'm there when anyone else needs me.
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Yes, John, you gave me utter grief this morning.
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I'd like you to call me for a minute.
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I've been trying to get over the hump with this arguing and now you tell me you're not into things and you don't want to fight weakly and fly off the handle at Sam with me, like you're setting me up to fail.
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I've been dealing with my own personal crisis over things I have zero control over.
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I'd like to lean on you sometimes.
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Instead, I just hear everything I've done wrong.
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You seriously cannot pick up the phone for two seconds.
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Why don't you meet me at the hillside at 4.30, 5 o'clock?
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Another redacted one from John.
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Or whenever you get settled.
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Like I said, at doctor now, and he has practice until six.
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If you want to go start drinking, then go for it.
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I didn't know the times of his practice.
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I just want to give you space at the house without me there, so I'd rather meet you out than meet at the house.
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Well, yeah, well, now there's a 72-year-old taking up shop on my couch.
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Yeah, that too.
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Is he going to Collins?
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Not tonight.
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So do you plan on going out tonight?
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Karen, I don't know, you're like jonesing to drink, so just go.
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Okay.
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Well, after how this morning went down, I don't think I need to be back over there with you, and getting frustrated at how I am with the kids has nothing to do with drinking.
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I am paranoid now that everything I do with them is problematic, so I'd rather see you for a minute without kids around.
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What's your plan?
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Don't have one.
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Still at home.
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Yes.
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We just got home Waiting to see what Papa decides here, or else I have to get Patrick at six.
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Okay.
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So are you staying home or coming here?
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Waiting to see what you end up doing.
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I don't want to hang out at the house too much.
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Like I said, I think it's clear me around with the kids around is slowly killing our relationship, and our relationship is much more important to me.
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Well, there's a blizzard coming, so we'll be inside all weekend.
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It'll be over by noon tomorrow.
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Don't think so over by noon tomorrow.
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Don't think so.
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I don't want to keep having this constant conflict of the dynamic of the four of us.
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The harder I try, the more it kills our relationship as a couple.
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It feels like utter shit to be in this position.
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Rather, just meet you out for drinks when you figure out what your night looks like well, I have no idea what's going on.
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So do you want you want need to figure out what everyone else is doing?
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All I know is that madeline is coming over, no clue about patrick yet, or if papa was planning on hanging for a few more hours.
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Okay, well, when you know the story, and if you want me to come up, let me know.
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No, karen, you decide what you want to do.
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I know your heart isn't in this anymore.
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I've felt it for a while, and especially lately.
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I am willing to try more, but not if you're approaching the point of indifference.
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If you want me to come up and you can head out for a while, then say so when you know what your father is doing.
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So you come up and I head out.
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Really, I've told you already, I don't bounce back as quickly as you do after we have a battle.
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No, head out together or meet up.
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Gonna send Patrick to college tonight.
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They're planning they're picking him up around 7.
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Mike may hang too when brings Matt over.
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So why don't you just come over?
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Mike doesn't want to go out for a bit question mark.
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I would like to Been a shitty day from the jump.
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Probably I just got sober an hour ago.
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I'll let you hang with Mike for a few.
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Don't need to butt in.
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Text me if and when you think you may head out.
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Can you please send me Tim Zoll's contact info please?
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I already paid the last bill.
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You didn't have to do that, thanks, are you really not going to accept my friend request?
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I already paid the last bill.
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You didn't have to do that, thanks, are you really not going?
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to accept my friend request.
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On what?
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Facebook?
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Yeah, we have been going out for two years.
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I haven't gone on.
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You've defriended me.
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Over a year ago, I believe, carrie texted that they're headed out in a little bit.
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Okay, dot, dot dot.
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She's going to let me know where.
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So you're going to meet them.
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Just presenting it as an option.
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Wouldn't mind hanging out with them for a drink.
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Is Mike over?
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Yes.
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Sounds like you're good with getting together tonight, was hoping after this morning you'd be interested in smoothing things over with me.
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Told you to come over, but you insisted on meeting me out somewhere.
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Mike is a little off with me for a while now.
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I've said it multiple times Time to get over it, Karen.
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He's fine, and he was fine the other night when he came by.
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Yeah, I just wouldn't mind hanging out with other people, like another female too.
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Where are you meeting them?
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I don't have plans with them.
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She just said they're headed out in a bit and will text you when they land somewhere.
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If you want to go out with Mike solo, that's fine, just let me know.
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I already told you what you should do, not going to keep doing this.
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I asked to let me know if you guys are going to head out.
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I haven't been out for drinks this week and had a shit week and a shit day and I dread Kaylee or Pat is going to get chatty with me the second I walk in and that's going to irritate you.
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Pat is leaving, kay is with Mad Cam.
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I'll text Chris then.
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We're headed out shortly.
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What's your plan, karen?
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Do you want me to join or no?
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Yes, wasn't sure if you were meeting the Currians.
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They are not out drinking yet.
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Where are you headed?
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Trying to decide, maybe McCarthy's.
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Okay, then let me know where you decide.
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I'm still down in Mansfield.
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Tell me when you leave, still waiting on McKinney's.
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I'm having issues with my hot water, so had to text someone to take a look.
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You trying to piss me off.
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Hope your plumber buddy that you texted is hot.
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Nope, my shower only got lukewarm and now my sink won't run hot at all.
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The plumber I used to use is right down the road.
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I turned the temp thing in the basement all the way up.
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Check the water heater and see if it's leaking.
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It's not.
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Don't do.
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That Is the pilot lit.
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I was trying to get my shower hot.
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Yes, Don't turn it up all the way, it will burn out.
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I had this issue twice before and it wasn't a disaster.
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I just can't remember what the cause was.
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Just turn it back down to where it was and get over here.
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I don't want to come home in a blizzard and be up shit creek.
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So you're going home tonight.
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Or tomorrow or whenever.
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I've had a chill all day since my shower.
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It's going to snow all day tomorrow.
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No driving, we're headed to McCarthy's.